Guys need to understand that women are polygamous in nature, most especially Nigerian women. It is in the nature of women to cheat.
A
recent survey reported that 62% of Nigerian women are unfaithful. That’s
to tell you that it’s in the nature of women, most especially Nigerian
women to cheat.
Cheating or not is at the discretion of the wife!
If as a man you find a woman who doesn’t cheat on you, then you are
just lucky. But stop giving yourself unnecessary heartache checking her
phones and keeping a prying eye on her.
If your wife cheats on you,
it doesn’t mean that she doesn’t love you. A woman can love and respect
you but still cheat on you. It just means that she wants to explore. As
long as she still respects you by at least being discreet with her
sexcapades, and still plays her roles as a wife, I see no reason why you
should get worked up over it.
I mean, it’s not like the vagina is going
to disappear or change in colour and shape.
It is stupidity to
divorce your wife just because she cheats on you. How many do you want
to marry? The next woman might even be worse.
And remember that
according to the Bible, if you decide to divorce your wife for any
reason at all, you are expected to remain celibate for life, or till she
dies.
I hope God gives our men the wisdom to understand that
cheating is NOT enough reason to divorce their wives, or even complain
at all.
– Nkechi Bianze
360lacr
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